Tolerations: The Energy Zapper

Desktop clutter. People that always put you down. Fears and Doubts. A troublesome relationship.

What do these things have in common?

They are all tolerations - the little and big things we put up with, often without realizing it, that zap our energy and drain our life force.

Every time we tolerate something, we deplete the energy we could be using to grow our business or make desired changes or to simply experience joy. It’s like living with a low-grade fever or pain that somehow dulls our experience and zaps our full vitality.

If we are committed to creating work and a personal life that is balanced and fulfilling…if we want to fully express our unique gifts and be of service, it is necessary to consciously evaluate and eliminate the tolerations standing in our way.

Here are some ideas on how to do that:

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Sheeba Varghese is a Professional Certified Coach, speaker, and mentor to many. Her passion is to inspire and motivate men and women to take steps that would encourage them to get unstuck so they may thrive in life! In her time apart from clients, Sheeba enjoys time with her husband, Santosh, and their 2 son's, Sam and Steven. She loves great movies, a good book, decorating and eating at the wonderful restaurants of San Francisco.